Sunday, September 15, 2013

Hot hotel sex, and a pic of hubby.

Hubby and I took a little trip last weekend to do some hiking in the mountains. It was a fun weekend with some hot sex. Though not as much as I would have liked, because I wasn't feeling well the last night we were there. Being sick always sucks, but it's even worse when you're on vacation and it messes up plans.

I am happy to say that the first night we were there, hubby agreed to let me take a couple pics, so I got to have some fun behind the camera. Here's a couple of my pics.

Here's my sexy man!

Just a kiss ;)
After this pic, I couldn't focus on the camera any longer. I was sitting on the sink, and I had to put my foot up on the wall to keep from falling as he fucked the hell out of me. I may need to reenact that one. Damn, it was good! I'm wet now just from thinking about it!

Til later, Have a sexy day!


Sunday, August 25, 2013

Rubberdoll, Sexy in Latex

A few years ago, I had the pleasure of meeting this sexy fetish model at an event in Miami and she was as nice as she is hot! Her name is Rubberdoll.
She will be in Key West next weekend for Fetish Fest. I sure wish I could go, but there's much too much on my plate for a trip to the Keys. If you're heading to Fetish Fest, make sure to look for her. I'm sure she'll be wearing some kinky latex. ;) For more on what she's up to, follow her on Twitter @Rubberdoll

Thursday, August 22, 2013

Burlesque Girl Sets Tassels On Fire

I really like Burlesque, and would love to try it out for myself. (Hmmm, may have to look for some local classes!) But, this...this may be a little too hot for me...flaming hot! ;)

Enjoy the fire twirling tassels!

Sunday, August 18, 2013

Saturday, August 17, 2013

Violet is Back!

In 2009, I started this blog as a way to express my sexuality. I was very happily married, and I had had a breast reduction that left me feeling very perky :) At the time, my husband and I had an incredibly active sex life, even after all our years together, we were still very into each other, and I wanted to share that with the world. And, so I blogged until 2011, when suddenly things changed...

Hubby was diagnosed with liver disease, and I had uterus cancer that required a full hysterectomy. I recovered nicely from the surgery, and hubby's liver is healing very well. We remained happily married with a healthy sex life, but it just never got back to where it was prior to our illnesses.

In the past few months, our lives have changed even more...

We had always talked about introducing other women into our sex lives, but this was different. Hubby had become very close with one of my friends, and I could quickly see how things were changing between them. We always had a great relationship, and I was still very happy with him, but he seemed distracted. She began declaring him her best friend, and he said the same of her. He stopped sharing details of their conversations, and the more I questioned him the more he hid what was happening. I would soon find out that my husband of 21 years was in love with this other woman; a devastating blow to what I thought was the perfect marriage.

It's been an emotional ride over the past few months, as I'm learning to deal with his new relationship, and he's trying to figure out just exactly what this means for him and us. I know he continues to make me happy, and I want to still be married to him. He knows he still loves me, but he loves her, too, and he wants her as his best friend. She says she loves him and will always want more, but will settle for being his best friend as long as he is with me. For sure, a very big mess!

So, as all this has unfolded, I've felt crushed, angry, unloved, humiliated, and doubtful, but more importantly I've found myself thinking about Violet, my alter ego, the pre-illness me that wouldn't have been so devastated to find sex talk on my husband's phone from another woman. The old me that would have been confident enough in myself and my marriage to know that I can still make him happy, the me that wouldn't have felt threatened by this other woman. I've thought a lot about what I want out of life and what's important to me.

So, I'm giving me another chance. I'm a survivor and I'm ready to live and explore. I'm bringing Violet back...and Violet is feeling vampy!