Hot hotel sex, and a pic of hubby.

Hubby and I took a little trip last weekend to do some hiking in the mountains. It was a fun weekend with some hot sex. Though not as much as I would have liked, because I wasn't feeling well the last night we were there. Being sick always sucks, but it's even worse when you're on vacation and it messes up plans.

I am happy to say that the first night we were there, hubby agreed to let me take a couple pics, so I got to have some fun behind the camera. Here's a couple of my pics.

Here's my sexy man!

Just a kiss ;)

After this pic, I couldn't focus on the camera any longer. I was sitting on the sink, and I had to put my foot up on the wall to keep from falling as he fucked the hell out of me. I may need to reenact that one. Damn, it was good! I'm wet now just from thinking about it!

Til later, Have a sexy day!

Kisses,
Violet

Rubberdoll, Sexy in Latex

A few years ago, I had the pleasure of meeting this sexy fetish model at an event in Miami and she was as nice as she is hot! Her name is Rubberdoll.
She will be in Key West next weekend for Fetish Fest. I sure wish I could go, but there's much too much on my plate for a trip to the Keys. If you're heading to Fetish Fest, make sure to look for her. I'm sure she'll be wearing some kinky latex. ;) For more on what she's up to, follow her on Twitter @Rubberdoll

Burlesque Girl Sets Tassels On Fire

I really like Burlesque, and would love to try it out for myself. (Hmmm, may have to look for some local classes!) But, this...this may be a little too hot for me...flaming hot! ;)

Enjoy the fire twirling tassels!

Pink

Feeling like a little pink.

Pop Art Boobies

Playing with my new photo editor app... My boobies as pop art! What do you think?

Violet is Back!

In 2009, I started this blog as a way to express my sexuality. I was very happily married, and I had had a breast reduction that left me feeling very perky :) At the time, my husband and I had an incredibly active sex life, even after all our years together, we were still very into each other, and I wanted to share that with the world. And, so I blogged until 2011, when suddenly things changed...

Hubby was diagnosed with liver disease, and I had uterus cancer that required a full hysterectomy. I recovered nicely from the surgery, and hubby's liver is healing very well. We remained happily married with a healthy sex life, but it just never got back to where it was prior to our illnesses.

In the past few months, our lives have changed even more...

We had always talked about introducing other women into our sex lives, but this was different. Hubby had become very close with one of my friends, and I could quickly see how things were changing between them. We always had a great relationship, and I was still very happy with him, but he seemed distracted. She began declaring him her best friend, and he said the same of her. He stopped sharing details of their conversations, and the more I questioned him the more he hid what was happening. I would soon find out that my husband of 21 years was in love with this other woman; a devastating blow to what I thought was the perfect marriage.

It's been an emotional ride over the past few months, as I'm learning to deal with his new relationship, and he's trying to figure out just exactly what this means for him and us. I know he continues to make me happy, and I want to still be married to him. He knows he still loves me, but he loves her, too, and he wants her as his best friend. She says she loves him and will always want more, but will settle for being his best friend as long as he is with me. For sure, a very big mess!

So, as all this has unfolded, I've felt crushed, angry, unloved, humiliated, and doubtful, but more importantly I've found myself thinking about Violet, my alter ego, the pre-illness me that wouldn't have been so devastated to find sex talk on my husband's phone from another woman. The old me that would have been confident enough in myself and my marriage to know that I can still make him happy, the me that wouldn't have felt threatened by this other woman. I've thought a lot about what I want out of life and what's important to me.

So, I'm giving me another chance. I'm a survivor and I'm ready to live and explore. I'm bringing Violet back...and Violet is feeling vampy!

Pole Dancing Gone Bad

I was looking at some sexy pole dancing on youtube, when I came across this. Proof that some things should be left to the professionals.

Sexy Nerds

Today, I'm feeling...Nerdy

courtesy nerdygirllove.tumblr

Kate Black's

 

courtesy google images

courtesy Let'sfuckinyourbed

courtesy Let'sfuckinyourbed

courtesy reddit.com

That girl

I'm the girl who passes by you
or sits beside you at the bar
I'm the girl in jeans and sneakers,
with tattoos on her arm.
I look at you with longing
thoughts you'd never know
from what do you taste like
to what toy will fit you best
I wonder if you notice
the way I look at you
or do you look right past me
dismissing me as dull
for I'm the girl right next to you
the one you'll never really know

Wench Love

Happy Talk Like a Pirate Day!



courtesy of adventuregamers.com



courtesy trevmurphy.com





courtesy of bilgemonkey.com

courtesy piratemerch.com



Porn Star Dancing

I love this song! It's got a great beat, and, who doesn't like a video full of strippers?!

HOTT! It makes me want to wrap my hand around a pole! ;)

Strawberries are Sexy

Don't you just love strawberries?!

all images were located on Google Images

Wonderings of Hula Hoop Stripping

I wonder...

*can I catch his cold from sucking his cock?

*am I good, as long as he doesn't cum in my mouth?

*does swallowing make me a cannibal?

*does he secretly masturbate like I do?

*how do men pay for sex without their wife knowing where the money went?

and

* How the hell does she keep that hula hoop moving while stripping?!

Beer Math

This is pretty neat. I got it in an e-mail and yes, it's one of those weird math things that someone somewhere spent time figuring out, but for the rest of us, it's just freakin' cool! So give it a try!

DON'T CHEAT BY SCROLLING DOWN FIRST!

It takes less than a minute.

Work this out as you read.

Be sure you don't read the bottom until you've worked it out!


1. First of all, pick the number of times a week that you would like to

have a beer (more than once but less than 10) If you're not  a beer drinker use wine or Jack Daniels, whatever, just pick a number between 1 and 10.



2. Multiply this number by 2 (just to be bold)



3. Add 5 (as in the number of fingers on your sexy hand)



4. Multiply it by 50 -- I'll wait while you get the calculator



5. If you have already had your birthday this year add 1760 ..

If you haven't, add 1759..



6... Now subtract the four digit year that you were born.



You should have a three digit number



The first digit of this was your original number

(i.e., how many times you want to have beer each week).



The next two numbers are


YOUR AGE! (Oh YES, it is!!!!!)

My Little Secret or A Lack of Discipline

Shhh want to know a secret? Sometimes I try to keep myself from masturbating so I can save myself for the next time I'm with hubby. But, on a night like tonight when I've thought of sucking his cock all day, since I sent him a topless pic in the gym, and he responded with a demand for me to suck him dry. Ever since then, I've thought of nothing else but sucking his cock with his hand inside my hot wet pussy! And, I just can't control myself!

Unfortunately, I can't have him tonight, so I'm online, watching porn, trying to convince myself to wait, but I have no discipline!

So, while he sleeps, I will be alone in the shower, and with the help of my new glass Kissa vibe from Eden's Fantasys, I will have no choice, but to make myself cum!

HNT Wild

On the outside you may not see

that there's a wild side of me

but come close and you might find

the animal that waits inside

Happy HNT!

Sex and...Knitting?

Am I missing something?! Is there a man out there that would wear this?

Books for the Crafty Kinkster

For the DIY'er

For the power tool lover

Got your own kiln?

All images courtesy of Amazon.com

A Golden What?

The sign outside said "Impulse Lingerie." I was 20 years old and had just left my 2 girls with a sitter for my first day of work. When I walked in, my tall beautiful blonde boss approached me with a jug of water in her hand. She told me that she had a client coming in an hour and she needed to finish the water before he got there. I had no idea what she was talking about, but decided it was best to just nod and smile. I soon found out what was going on when her client arrived. She grabbed a role of paper towels and walked into a room with the old man. Through the two way mirror I could see her squatting over his face. She was fully dressed except for her panties. With her skirt pushed up above her round ass I could see her legs were shaking from the strain of squatting. The yellow stream of liquid fell on his face and into his mouth. When she couldn't squat any longer, she stood, finished into a cup, and handed it to him. He smiled, drank it down, and left a pile of money on the table. What had I gotten myself into?

No Sex For Me in the City

I wasn't having any sex in the City, but I culdn't help but think about it with all these pictures around.